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Old Farts Dating Younger Women – 4 Steps For Success
By Darryl Hurst

Sooner or later a guy falls into the category of old fart and although this is a relative term, the same as May-December is in describing a particular type of relationship, it can be a challenge for some men to deal with, especially if they are interested in dating a much younger woman. In this article I will discuss four important areas for a greater possibility of success-the right mindset, flirting, first dates and capturing her heart.

It’s really important to be comfortable with yourself first and not be depressed about the fact that you’re not as young as you used to be. You may have many wonderful attributes that some women will find quite appealing. That’s why May-December relationships happen! Sure, you may not be attractive to all women, but some women just like the idea of an older guy in their life, so play it out! If you have been out of the dating scene for awhile, you may have picked up some bad personal habits like sloppy dressing, forgetting to shave, and using colorful language. Work on these things and be a charming old fart.

It’s not necessary to reinvent your life or try to be something you aren’t, in fact if you dress like someone 20 years younger you may just look foolish doing so. Be honest. When shopping for new clothes find a younger sales lady and ask her to help you pick something out that she thinks would look good on you. Or ask a younger woman at work to help you find the right clothes. Take her out to lunch for helping you out, most women love to shop and don’t forget to tell her why you want new clothes, for dating! Who knows it may spark her interest in you. Getting a new look will also help you feel more confident inside.

Forget the canned pickup lines or a course in how to get more women to obey your every wish. Just be yourself and don’t worry about being nervous, it’s normal and most women find it cute if you’re a little nervous. If you’re really are scared get a self-hypnosis course on confidence, they really work.

Flirting is a lot easier for some men than for others but it’s necessary if you want a successful dating life. You have to communicate and do so without coming off as boring or a jerk. One good way is to get in the habit of admiring something that a woman is wearing or a new hairstyle. And it doesn’t have to be a woman you are interested in dating, just make it a habit to compliment women on their appearance whenever the occasion presents itself. And don’t overdo it, just a little remark like, “That’s a great new look for you!” will do it.

If you shop in the same grocery or pharmacy compliment the salesladies you see regularly, you will get the reputation of being a nice guy and friendly. Once again don’t overdo this, it is their job, so you don’t want to get them in trouble for talking too much. You are just getting in the practice of “breaking the ice” when a possible dating situation occurs.If you are really shy, join Toastmasters! It will definitely help you get out of your shell and feel at ease talking to anyone.

When picking a place for your first date or two, keep it very casual. If the weather is nice, a walk in the park and coffee is good or perhaps a farmers market. And walking will help with the jitters, if you have them. You want to be able to communicate and get to know each other so a movie is not a good idea. Also, if there is a big age difference between you and her, don’t hang out with her friends or your friends. Sooner or later someone will make a remark about your age differences and it will just be uncomfortable. Get to know each other first and if it works out, you won’t care what others think!

Workout dates are maybe not a good idea unless you are as fit as her. Serious athletes focus on their workouts and it tends not to be a casual activity. Try lounging by a pool and talking about working out! Also, if you wish to take her somewhere for lunch that is some distance away, make sure she is comfortable with that. If she is, the drive will be a good chance for talking. You want to be able to stand out from the other guys she dates and being older is an advantage if you’ve learned some cool things over the years, like wine tasting or knowledge of antiques or art. Just don’t come off as a know-it-all and turn her off. Let her casually see that you are quite talented and being with you is a rewarding experience.

When you’ve been together a few times a little gift would be nice, but I think staying away from flowers is a good idea at first. You want to let her know you are a sweet guy and a little gift when you pick her up for a date would be cool. If you have paid attention when you were out with her before, you may remember an item that she thought was cute. Gem shops are a great place to find something pretty and inexpensive. By now you may know her favorite colors, or you can always find something the color of her eyes, do you get it? Unless she is really into expensive things, you don’t have to overdo the spending and it could be a turnoff anyway. If you can afford expensive gifts, wait for awhile. You can learn more about people by the
simple things in life.

I believe that you will find out that as an old fart, dating younger women is not much different than dating someone your own age! It’s all about what you prefer and desire in your life. Start with learning about yourself, get a notebook and list all of your cool strong points and your weaknesses as well. You’ll always have room for improvement in all areas of your life, but starting with a new look as I had mentioned earlier is a great way to begin.

Getting out of yourself by flirting is mostly an observation game and practice in your communication skills. Being casual and laid back is the perfect way to begin a romance and it is much better to take a stroll with her than to get into the “this is going to be a date-yikes” mindset. Little things at the right time work much better than overkill in the gifts department and will help you to not only know her better, but will show her what a sweet and caring guy you are.

Darryl was somewhat of a reluctant OF, but has finally decided to accept it and get on with living!

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Love Spells

© Amy Cunningham, Editor

A guide to the role of love spells in romantic relationships. Learn how to improve your love life and sexual relationships with powerful relationship spells.

The role of astrology in romance is becoming more prevalent in every aspect of romantic relationships. From checking love horoscopes to casting love spells, astrology and spell casting have solidified their position in today’s world of romance, relationships, and love. While love horoscopes have been popular for quite some time, the art of spell casting is becoming more mainstream as people everywhere are looking for spells to help them improve their current relationships or gain new relationship.

While many remain skeptical, there are several high profile psychics providing romance and love related spell casting services on the Internet today. Spell casting to improve relationships is growing by leaps and bounds, but how exactly do these love spells work?

How do love spells work?
Love spells are not meant to help you control or manipulate, but rather to use as a tool to improve a situation and bring peace to it. Spells are about giving love and receiving it, not about making someone love you. They generally work by harnessing the forces of nature to work for you and your romantic situation by allowing your loved one (whom you are casting the spell on) to see the truth in your relationship and that you have a true and honest love for them. This love that you are giving is what they respond to when the spell is cast.

It is important to note that you should never cast a love spell with a false desire. Only when you have true love for the person in your heart will the spell work. If you are casting a spell for a new relationship, you must remember that while the spell will help things along, it will not deliver Mr. or Ms. Right directly to your front door. Get out and meet people and the spell will be on your side. Even the inexperienced can cast a successful love spell, but the spell will not work if taken lightly.

If you’re new to love spells, here are a few of the most popular today:

The Love Spell
The most popular relationship spell is the Love Spell. It is designed to improve your current relationship or if you are not in a relationship, to help you start a new one. The love spell can help:
Bring your inner beauty to the surface for all to see.
Make you more appealing to the opposite sex.
Open the mind and heart of your desire, helping them to appreciate you, your heart, and the love that you have to offer them.
If you are interested in a new relationship, a love spell is on your side, drawing the opposite sex to you and helping you find your one true love.
Cast by a master psychic, the love spell can help remove any barriers that stand in the way of you and your perfect relationship.

The Make Me Sexy Spell
If you’re experiencing a lag in your sex life, this may be what you’re looking for. The Steamy Sex Spell is designed to help you enjoy sex to it’s fullest, making every night seem like the first night. This spell is perfect for you if:
Your sexual desire has decreased and it is effecting your relationship.
Your sex life has become a bit boring and it is hurting your relationship.
You want more excitement, passion, and the desire to try new things in the bedroom.
You no longer need to feel inadequate or undesirable. Start steaming up your sex life with the Steamy Sex Spell.

The ‘Retrieve A Lover’ Spell
Have you recently ended a relationship and wish that you hadn’t? Do you long for a lost lover? If you are heartsick, lonely, or desire a past relationship, the Retrieve A Lover Spell is for you. It is cast by a Master Psychic who specializes in reuniting people. A few days after the casting, you should have a renewed sense of hope and a strong feeling that your lost love is on their way back to you.