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Gaddafi’s ‘The Amazonian Guard’ Female Bodyguard Team
Libyan leader Muammar Abu Minyar al-Gaddafi’s all-female bodyguard details. This “elite force” is known as the “Amazonian Guard” and, according to Mediaite, “every member must, allegedly, be a virgin hand-picked by Gaddafi, and must then undergo extensive martial arts and firearms training at a special academy before becoming official members of the force.”
‘I Don’t Trust Women’: Don’t Believe the Hype
By Bene | February 1, 2011
At work you’ve formed a cordial relationship with one of the other women, and you start eating lunch with her regularly. Both of you share some of the same interests, the two of you are always laughing together and seem to get along well. Eventually, the break room chats turn into hanging out occasionally after work. In a random conversation over cocktails and appetizers you tell the story about the time you and your besties went to Miami, partied and relaxed on the beach for a much needed vacation. Something in her eyes indicates she can’t relate, and her statement later confirms it.
“I don’t hang with females. And I don’t have any female friends because women can’t be trusted,” she says.
Although you can understand where she’s coming from, your immediate response is a blank stare. In our lifetime, majority of women have heard at least one woman mumble something similar to the above sentiments. Distrust of women, especially women of color, is at an all time high. Too many Black women have adopted a mentality of automatically having a negative perception of other black women. We have got to stop this.
I know the pain of being hurt by women who I’ve considered dear friends. There have been women who have smiled in my face, who I thought were friends, but then talked about me behind my back. I’m not oblivious to the gut-wrenching pain of losing girlfriends you’ve had for years. But I also know this has only been a small percentage of my experience with women.
A life without girlfriends, presumably, would be a life of misery. It is your girlfriends who nurse you back to health after an unexpected surgery. Girlfriends allow you to cry on their shoulders when a guy breaks your heart. It is your female friends who won’t judge you when you do something stupid, but has the courage to tell you the truth. A bond of sisterhood is invaluable to your life as a woman.
I’ve never rolled with a clique. I think the friendships portrayed in TV shows like “Girlfriends” and “Sex and the City,” where a group of women are all friends, is rare. However, I do have women I’ve met in my lifetime who will always be like sisters. Most of them don’t know each other, and we all have moved to different states. Yet, my friends are my biggest cheerleaders and vice versa.
Due to patriarchy, Black women are conditioned to be hostile toward one another. There are times we will mug each other for no reason, or have unnecessary attitudes toward women we don’t even know. Just the other day, my friend and I were talking about how some black women are suspicious when we throw an unexpected compliment their way. Some give a disapproving look like, “Why are you even approaching me? I don’t know you.” Only to find out you just want to tell her how fierce her shoes are.
Then there are the women who proudly proclaim, “I have all male friends. I’m like one of the guys.” They wear their “one of the guys” title like a badge of honor. And a lot of times it is in the presence of men, almost as if they are trying to impress the men by acknowledging their distrust of women. I’ve heard it all from men are easier to get along with to men don’t gossip like women. Let me be the first to debunk that myth right now. Men do gossip; sometimes, just as much as some women.
Not trusting all women says more about you than it does about the women you don’t trust. There is no reason we as women should believe this notion that women are untrustworthy. Enough of that nonsense is coming out of men’s mouths. Let’s not buy the hype.
A network of women can truly move mountains. Look at Oprah. Her success has largely been in part because of the women who have supported her over the years. DJ Beverly Bond, creator of “Black Girls Rock,” was able to promote her message because of women.
Frankly, I’m leery of anyone who says she doesn’t trust women or doesn’t have any girlfriends. We definitely have to be more conscientious about the ideas we put out and believe about one another. I love my male friends dearly, but I couldn’t imagine my life without my girls. And I hope every woman feels this way about at least one woman in her life.
Women united are a mighty force.
@WrittenByBene
http://bitchielife.necolebitchie.com/2011/02/i-dont-trust-women-dont-believe-the-hype/
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Written by a 90 year old
This is something we should all read at least once a week!!!!! Make sure you read to the end!!!!!!
Written by Regina Brett, 90 years old, of the Plain Dealer, Cleveland , Ohio .
“To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me. It is the most requested column I’ve ever written.
My odometer rolled over to 90 in August, so here is the column once more:
1. Life isn’t fair, but it’s still good.
2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.
3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
4. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch.
5. Pay off your credit cards every month.
6. You don’t have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
7. Cry with someone. It’s more healing than crying alone.
8. It’s OK to get angry with God. He can take it.
9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.
10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.
11. Make peace with your past so it won’t screw up the present.
12. It’s OK to let your children see you cry.
13. Don’t compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn’t be in it.
15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don’t worry; God never blinks.
16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.
17. Get rid of anything that isn’t useful, beautiful or joyful.
18. Whatever doesn’t kill you really does make you stronger.
19. It’s never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.
20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don’t take no for an answer.
21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don’t save it for a special occasion. Today is special.
22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.
23. Be eccentric now. Don’t wait for old age to wear purple.
24. The most important sex organ is the brain.
25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.
26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words ‘In five years, will this matter?’
27. Always choose life.
28. Forgive everyone everything.
29. What other people think of you is none of your business.
30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.
31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
32. Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
33. Believe in miracles.
34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn’t do.
35. Don’t audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.
36. Growing old beats the alternative — dying young.
37. Your children get only one childhood.
38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.
39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.
40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else’s, we’d grab ours back.
41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
42. The best is yet to come…
43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
44. Yield.
45. Life isn’t tied with a bow, but it’s still a gift.”
Its estimated 93% won’t shared this. If you are one of the 7% who will,share this with the title ‘7%’.
I’m in the 7%. Friends are the family that we choose.
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Love Spells
© Amy Cunningham, Editor
A guide to the role of love spells in romantic relationships. Learn how to improve your love life and sexual relationships with powerful relationship spells.
The role of astrology in romance is becoming more prevalent in every aspect of romantic relationships. From checking love horoscopes to casting love spells, astrology and spell casting have solidified their position in today’s world of romance, relationships, and love. While love horoscopes have been popular for quite some time, the art of spell casting is becoming more mainstream as people everywhere are looking for spells to help them improve their current relationships or gain new relationship.
While many remain skeptical, there are several high profile psychics providing romance and love related spell casting services on the Internet today. Spell casting to improve relationships is growing by leaps and bounds, but how exactly do these love spells work?
How do love spells work?
Love spells are not meant to help you control or manipulate, but rather to use as a tool to improve a situation and bring peace to it. Spells are about giving love and receiving it, not about making someone love you. They generally work by harnessing the forces of nature to work for you and your romantic situation by allowing your loved one (whom you are casting the spell on) to see the truth in your relationship and that you have a true and honest love for them. This love that you are giving is what they respond to when the spell is cast.
It is important to note that you should never cast a love spell with a false desire. Only when you have true love for the person in your heart will the spell work. If you are casting a spell for a new relationship, you must remember that while the spell will help things along, it will not deliver Mr. or Ms. Right directly to your front door. Get out and meet people and the spell will be on your side. Even the inexperienced can cast a successful love spell, but the spell will not work if taken lightly.
If you’re new to love spells, here are a few of the most popular today:
The Love Spell
The most popular relationship spell is the Love Spell. It is designed to improve your current relationship or if you are not in a relationship, to help you start a new one. The love spell can help:
Bring your inner beauty to the surface for all to see.
Make you more appealing to the opposite sex.
Open the mind and heart of your desire, helping them to appreciate you, your heart, and the love that you have to offer them.
If you are interested in a new relationship, a love spell is on your side, drawing the opposite sex to you and helping you find your one true love.
Cast by a master psychic, the love spell can help remove any barriers that stand in the way of you and your perfect relationship.
The Make Me Sexy Spell
If you’re experiencing a lag in your sex life, this may be what you’re looking for. The Steamy Sex Spell is designed to help you enjoy sex to it’s fullest, making every night seem like the first night. This spell is perfect for you if:
Your sexual desire has decreased and it is effecting your relationship.
Your sex life has become a bit boring and it is hurting your relationship.
You want more excitement, passion, and the desire to try new things in the bedroom.
You no longer need to feel inadequate or undesirable. Start steaming up your sex life with the Steamy Sex Spell.
The ‘Retrieve A Lover’ Spell
Have you recently ended a relationship and wish that you hadn’t? Do you long for a lost lover? If you are heartsick, lonely, or desire a past relationship, the Retrieve A Lover Spell is for you. It is cast by a Master Psychic who specializes in reuniting people. A few days after the casting, you should have a renewed sense of hope and a strong feeling that your lost love is on their way back to you.
http://www.romancestuck.com/articles/love-spells.htm
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